Awful Gifts from Nice People: 10 Ways to say "Thank You"

We asked our clients how they handle thanking someone very nice for a gift that is pretty awful.

Here are their suggestions:

Pat: It's beautiful. But I don't think it will fit me.

Jason: Thank you for surprising me!

Donald: It's nice. I'd like to give it back to you, please.

Connie: I have other gifts to open so I'll try it on later.

Melvin: This is a nice present.

Sharon: Your gift is precious to me.

Vernae: I've never seen anything like this before!

John: I don't want to try it on, but thanks.

Vadim: Thank you. Maybe you can give this to someone else?

Beth: Everything is nice. Everything is a gift.

Happy Holidays from all of us at The Arc of San Francisco!

Our recent holiday celebration was a blast, beginning with a pizza party for 200, moving on to the client Talent Show and then out on to the dance floor. (Didn't know Santa could move like that.)

The party was the culmination of a busy week for staff, volunteers and wish list donors who really stepped up this year to support our clients needing not only a little cheer, but also some basic clothing and household items.

Thank you to everyone who made a tough year a little warmer and brighter for the people with developmental disabilities we are proud to serve.

Check out these photos.
Meredith

Meredith Manning
Community Outreach

International Day of People with Disabilities

Today, the United Nations and people all over the world are celebrating International Day of Persons with Disabilities.
Events, forums, performances and advocacy activities will be taking place all day at the UN in New York and across the globe to promote awareness of disabilities issues and advances. From landmine victims in Bosnia-Herzegovenia to students with autism here in San Francisco, we all have much in common.
One of the key messages from the UN this year is "Difference is Natural."

I think this short video with stories of young people thousands of miles away says alot about the world of disability today.
WATCH VIDEO
Even though President Obama signed the UN Proclamation on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities in 2009, we still have a long way to go before we have full inclusion for people with disabilities into all aspects of political, social, economic and cultural life.
Our agency is only a small part of the UN's effort to change the world, but we are waging equality for our clients every day in our community--as Arc job coaches, health advocates and skills instructors. With the passion and dedication of our staff, and the determination and will of our clients, we are all helping to make possible the UN's goal of dignity and justice for all the world's citizens.

Tim Hornbecker

CEO, The Arc of San Francisco

Stuffed and Grateful

There's nothing like an intimate dinner for 200.

On Tuesday, I shared in all the fun and frenzy of serving a healthy Thanksgiving dinner to our clients. We pulled our round tables from storage, square tables from our conference rooms and assorted chairs from everywhere else, and managed to get everyone seated and served with no complaints.

In fact, clients told me the food this year was better than ever. "I'm stuffed!" said Clinton, giving kudos to the menu of roast pork, roast beef, stuffing, veggies and pumpkin pie.

I can't say enough about the Rotary Club of San Francisco who organized this event, purchased the food and prepared it all in our small kitchen.

Past President Eric Schmautz from Wells Fargo said he was fortunate to have over 40 Rotary volunteers to help him this year--The Arc is a popular destination!

Current President Scott Plakun of The Plakun Group told me how much it meant for his team to lend a hand in celebrating this traditional holiday.

For many clients, this will be their only special meal of the year and it means a great deal to be able to sit down with peers and be served in a dignified setting with a wonderful plate of well-prepared food.

As we all look forward to sharing Thanksgiving with family and friends, I am especially grateful to our volunteers and our dedicated staff at The Arc who made this day possible.

Tim

Tim Hornbecker, CEO

Meeting Your Goals

Hi, I'm Tatyana, and today I want to talk about meeting your goals.
A goal is something you want to acheive. It's really fun to meet your goals. They can help you learn new things and make you feel good. Some examples of goals are being more responsible, being like an adult, saving money, treating people well, and helping others.

Here are some tips to help you meet your goals:

• As your staff for help
• Go over your goals before you go to bed
• Show up to program
• Do what your IPP says

Having goals helps you to be more independent and happy.
Good luck meeting your goals!

*Individual Program Plan

Disability Month Disappointment

I've been informed unofficially that the Employment, Life Skills and Performing Arts classes that are part of the City College curricula for people with disabilities may no longer be taught at The Arc.

This is disturbing news because many people with developmental disabilties find these classes invaluable, but they cannot access them if they are only available at a remote location like the City College campus out on Phelan Avenue.

During October, National Disability Employment Awareness Month, our staff and clients are very aware of the challenges people with Down syndrome, autism and other disabilities face as they try and break into the workforce.

City College has a 25-year relationship with The Arc. Their progressive and inclusive approach to education has honed the skills of many people with disabilities over the years--Job Club students like Tom who practiced his interview skills in class and then landed a job at Boudin's Bakery. Or like Nancy, a class graduate who is now a taxpaying 10-year veteran employee at Trader Joe's.

When I first heard about the changes being considered, I wrote to the CCSF Disabled Students Programs and Services (DSPS) Chair Paul Johnson, Dean Larry Klein, Chancellor Don Griffin and President Milton Marks.
I am somewhat relieved that a quick decision was made to continue these classes at least through the Spring term.

But what happens after that?

I'm very concerned that eliminating classes taught at The Arc will deprive students with the least access to the adult education they need to compete in today's job market.

Are students with developmental disabilities any less valuable than other students? Aren't the classes that help these individuals succeed just as important as other CCSF career development courses?

During National Disability Employment Awareness Month, as we celebrate the work and achievements of people with disabilities across the United States, I thank CCSF instructors and administrators for providing the innovative classes that are critical to achieve a fully inclusive workplace.

I encourage CCSF's leadership not to eliminate the vital education people with developmental disabilities must have if they are to reach their fullest potential in the workplace and in life.

Tim

Tim Hornbecker is the Chief Executive Officer of The Arc of San Francisco.

Connie's Job Savvy Fashion Tips

Hi, I'm Connie and here are tips for dressing right on the job which is really important if you want to keep it:

Don't over-accessorize Don't include too much "bling" in your outfit. Not only will your boss be turned off, you might lose your job. If you're trying to get a job, you might not get hired.

Don't wear loud jewelry No tacky jewelry except for a watch if you're working or interviewing.

Dress for your interview It's better to over-dress than under-dress here. Don't wear a t-shirt or shorts!

Know the dress code Find out about your dress code so that you know what to wear to work. If there's a strict dress code, then you should follow it--like wearing a suit. Of course, there may be casual Fridays when you can wear anything within limits. Casual clothes are ok for these days like nice t-shirts and jeans, but not a swimsuit, wetsuit, beach cover-up, etc. Wear anything like that and you'll probably lose your job!

I'd like to hear your tips for dressing on the job, so write to me at BlogTalk. (I like stories about fashion disasters, too--have you seen any lately?)